Episode 288

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14th Feb 2024

Teaching Children Money Skills: A Guide for Parents

In this episode, financial planner Kate Welker discusses the importance of teaching children about money and shares her own experiences and strategies for instilling good money management skills. She emphasizes the value of open communication about finances, introducing children to tangible money, allowing them to make reasonable mistakes, and gradually introducing them to digital payment systems. Kate also highlights the significance of savings accounts and the lessons they teach about budgeting and interest. Tune in for practical tips on raising financially responsible children.

As parents, one of the most important life skills we can teach our children is how to manage money. Money is not an intuitive skill, and it takes time and experience to develop good money management habits. In this episode, we will explore the importance of teaching children about money and share practical tips for instilling good money skills in them.

Key Takeaways

  • Teaching children about money is an essential life skill that will benefit them in the long run.
  • Start conversations about money from a young age to help children develop an understanding of its value and how it is used.
  • Use tangible money, such as coins and dollars, to help children grasp the concept of exchange and the value of money.
  • Allow children to make reasonable mistakes with money, as it helps them learn valuable lessons about budgeting and decision-making.
  • Introduce bank accounts and debit cards to older children to teach them about saving, spending, and managing their own finances.

Starting Conversations about Money

One of the best ways to teach children about money is to start conversations about it from a young age. Money is often seen as a taboo subject, but it is important to expose children to these conversations so they can develop an understanding of how money works and its role in their lives.

Growing up, I was fortunate to have parents who openly discussed money with me. They would talk about household expenses, such as the cost of repairs or groceries, and involve me in discussions about budgeting and financial decisions. These conversations helped me develop a sense of awareness about money and its value.

In my own family, I have continued this tradition by having conversations with my children about money. We discuss the cost of household expenses, such as internet or streaming services, and I explain to them why we make certain financial decisions. By involving them in these discussions, they gain a better understanding of how money is managed and the importance of making informed choices.

Using Tangible Money

In today's digital age, it is easy for children to lose touch with the concept of money as a tangible object. With the prevalence of credit cards and digital payment systems, children may not fully grasp the value of money and the exchange that takes place when making a purchase.

To help children understand the concept of exchange and the value of money, it is important to use tangible money, such as coins and dollars. When making purchases, let your children hand over the money and experience the transaction firsthand. This helps them develop a sense of responsibility and understand that money is exchanged for goods or services.

Additionally, encourage children to save their own money and see it grow over time. Opening a bank account for them and explaining the concept of interest can be a great way to teach them about saving and the benefits of long-term financial planning. Seeing their savings increase and setting goals for their money can be exciting and motivating for children.

Allowing Reasonable Mistakes

Making mistakes is a natural part of learning, and the same applies to money management. Allowing children to make reasonable mistakes with money can be a valuable learning experience for them. It teaches them about the consequences of their financial decisions and helps them develop better money management skills.

For example, if your child wants to buy a toy or a video game, let them make the purchase with their own money. If they later realize that they didn't really want or need the item, it can be a lesson in buyer's remorse and the importance of thoughtful spending. These small mistakes can help children understand the value of their money and make better decisions in the future.

It is important, however, to provide guidance and support to prevent children from making significant financial mistakes. As they get older and have more responsibility, such as a part-time job or an allowance, encourage them to budget their money and make informed choices. Teach them about the importance of saving, budgeting, and avoiding unnecessary debt.

Introducing Bank Accounts and Debit Cards

As children grow older and become more independent, it is important to introduce them to the world of banking and financial management. Opening a bank account for them and providing them with a debit card can be a great way to teach them about saving, spending, and managing their own finances.

Having a bank account allows children to see their money grow and understand the concept of interest. It also teaches them about the responsibilities that come with managing their own finances, such as tracking their balance, avoiding overdraft fees, and protecting their card and personal information.

Recently, I introduced my own children to the world of debit cards. While I initially had reservations about the convenience of digital payments, I realized that it is essential for them to learn how to manage their finances in a digital world. We discussed terms like deposits, transfers, and available balance, and they now have a better understanding of how to use their debit cards responsibly.

Conclusion

Teaching children about money is an important responsibility for parents. By starting conversations about money, using tangible money, allowing reasonable mistakes, and introducing bank accounts and debit cards, we can help our children develop essential money management skills.

Remember, every child is different, and it is important to tailor your approach to their individual needs and abilities. By instilling good money habits from a young age, we can set our children up for a lifetime of financial success.

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Amy Irvine

Uncorking Amy Irvine!!

If any of you have ever met Amy, you know she is passionate about
three things. Family, Finances, and WINE! This comes through in all
that she does and all that she is. When asked to describe herself she first and foremost states, “I am a wife, a daughter, and hopefully a good friend, who happens to also be a financial planner.” Amy holds a Master’s Degree in financial planning and is a Certified Financial Planner TM , Enrolled Agent, Certified College Financial Consultant, and a Financial Wellness Coach with over 25 years of financial planning and industry experience. She is the Founder and owner of Rooted Planning Group, (Formerly known as Irvine Wealth Planning Strategies LLC), which started in 2016 and has grown to include 6 other planners and 2 part-time staff members. Amy is definitely “doing it her way” and has been recognized by her financial planning colleagues as being a “disrupter,” a title she holds close to her heart and is proud of.

Uniquely, at the age of 44, she decided to not only start her only company, but to act on what she defined as her perfect life and she splits her time between Parrish, Florida and Jasper, New York.
On her website it states, “I love what I do, but I also very much enjoy warmth, good
conversation, wine tastings, and volunteering. New York is extraordinary in the summer and fall, but so is Florida in the winter.”
In 2018, she decided it was time to take the stigma out of finances by combining her passion for finances and wine. She started a podcast called “Wine and Dime,” which highlights a different wine and financial topic each week, and she released her book combining those same two passions, titled, “Uncork Your Finances.”
Many of you may know her as one of the co-founders of the Southern Tier Women’s Financial Conference – a day of collaboration and financial education, which will be hosting it’s sixth year!
To round out her volunteering passion, she often provides financial education to the
community through the financial management program of Cornell Cooperative Extension of Steuben County, she serves on the board of Faith-in-Action of Steuben County, volunteers for various Fund For Women of the Southern Tier events, works with the finance committee of the Arts Council of the Southern Finger Lakes, and serves on the board for the Corning Painted Post Historical Society (also known as Heritage Village).
In her downtime, you’re likely to find her with a glass of red wine from one of the many Keuka or Seneca Lake wineries that she highlights in her Wine and Dime Podcast.